Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come (Proverbs 31:25).

On a recent trip to the Mediterranean, I visited a shop where rugs were being made by hand. I was in awe of the detail, the patience, and expertise of the woman weaving the threads into a pattern. That visit made me reflect on the complexity and intricacies of family life, where women constantly weave threads of love, strength, and grace into the walls of their homes. All women — single, married, or widowed — guided by God, play a wonderful role in serving and shaping immediate and extended families. I encourage you to embrace your God-given ability to lead in the family.

Nurturers: Women lead as nurturers, tending to the emotional and physical needs of their loved ones. We lead by providing comfort, encouragement, and healing.

Empowering Others: Women empower their spouses, children, and extended family members. We encourage dreams, celebrate victories, and provide a safe harbor during storms. Our strength lies not in dominance but in empowering others to rise.

Servant Leadership: Women can lead through service. Jesus exemplified servant leadership in washing His disciples’ feet (John 13:1–17). We cook meals, mend wounds, and listen patiently. Our acts of love echo Christ’s command to love one another.

Legacy Builders: Women shape family legacies. As mentors, we can leave indelible marks. We lead by investing in relationships, passing down values, and leaving a heritage of faith.

Heavenly Father, we thank You for the women who lead within families. May our influence reflect Your love and grace. Strengthen us, guide us, and empower us to lead with wisdom and compassion. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

For another reminder on leading in your family, take a look at the Bible study, A Lot of Tough Love.

Your sister in Christ,
Lucy Servant Leader